Choose your friend wisely | @Chetanbro Quotes :- 16

CHOOSE YOUR FRIEND WISELY 

By :-@i_amChetanpaswan

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Today Quotes is,

"ONE TRUE FRIEND IS WORTH MORE THAN A CREW OF FAKES." 

ABOVE quotes contain a lot of meaning in itself but don't worry dears I am here to explain you in much simpler way so you can implement it in your daily lifestyle.

“There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves, it is not my nature.” Jane Austen

I believe that sometimes is a blessing and a curse to love and care so deeply for others. It’s a blessing when it’s reciprocated and a curse when it’s not. The quote from Jane Austen above resonates a lot with my nature. I will do anything for the people who are really my friends. I do not give a portion of my love, I give it all.

The people who really get me know that I have struggled with the term “friend” for a long time. I have struggled with identifying who are my friends and who are my acquaintances. I have struggled to let friendships run their course and move on to new ones. The lost and the gain. During those times I have acknowledged that I needed to stop with this struggle and ask myself a question, what’s family to me?

For me, the friends you choose is the family you choose. These are the people who will be PART of your life, just like family. We need to pick them wisely. We need people who encourage us, love us, motivate us, accept us and help us grow. People who listen, understand and ask you “but really, how are you?”

I reached a point where I find myself giving too much on certain friendships. I was the only one approaching a conversation, caring and loving and nothing was given back in return. I tried my best, but I can’t try to put a ball into a square. If it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t belong. In this process I grieved because knowing you are losing a friend is knowing that story ended. So yeah, it’s a hard process.

Nowadays, my group of real friends is a small one and I realized what is the most important thing (and I read it sooo many times) —

it’s the quality, not the quantity. 

Hope you enjoyed the article. Now you know. Thank you for reading this article. Have a great day. ♥️ 

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@Chetanbro